DEFENSIVE
BEHAVIOR




DEFENSIVE BEHAVIOR

DEFENSIVE BEHAVIOR RELATED TOPICS

HOW TO STOP BEING DEFENSIVE

5 WAYS TO STOP BEING DEFENSIVE

DEFENSIVE BEHAVIOR LINKS



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SECTION 1



DEFENSIVE
BEHAVIOR




1. Aggressive or submissive behaviour that is
response to any real or imagined threats.

2. Behaviour characterised by use and overuse
of defence mechanisms.



DEFENSIVE BEHAVIOR
https://psychologydictionary.org/defensive-behavior/



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SECTION 2



DEFENSIVE
BEHAVIOR
RELATED
TOPICS




EGO SUFFERING
https://psychologydictionary.org/ego-suffering/

ROAD RAGE
https://psychologydictionary.org/road-rage/

RESPONSE PROPOSITION
https://psychologydictionary.org/response-proposition/

FREUD, ANNA
https://psychologydictionary.org/freud-anna/

SUBLIMATION
https://psychologydictionary.org/sublimation/

ANXIETY
https://psychologydictionary.org/anxiety/

PSYCHOHISTORY
https://psychologydictionary.org/psychohistory/

DENIAL
https://psychologydictionary.org/denial/

MALADAPTATION
https://psychologydictionary.org/maladaptation/

DEFENSE REFLEX
https://psychologydictionary.org/defense-reflex/



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SECTION 3



HOW TO
STOP
BEING
DEFENSIVE




Defensiveness is one way that we protect our egos. You might get defensive if
someone challenges a cherished belief, criticizes you for something, or poses
a threat to how you see yourself and the world.

The thing is, defensiveness isn't always healthy behavior for our relationships
at home or work: the shields go up, the brain shuts down, and not much gets in
or out. To be less defensive, you'll need to learn how to control your emotions,
take criticism, and also be more empathetic to others.



How to Stop Being Defensive
https://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Being-Defensive



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5
WAYS TO STOP
BEING
DEFENSIVE






Remind yourself of your deepest values.

See criticism as a sign of others belief in your abilities.

Cultivate a growth mindset.

In the moment, buy time.

Use a classic: I statements.



5 Ways to Stop Getting Defensive
https://www.quickanddirtytips.com/health-fitness/mental-health/how-to-stop-getting-defensive



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SECTION 5



DEFENSIVE
BEHAVIOR
LINKS




5 Ways to Stop Yourself From Interrupting People
http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/rhonda-scharf/bad-habits-interruptions-_b_7621516.html

6 Causes and Cures for
Defensiveness In Relationships

https://leadingwithtrust.com/2015/12/13/6-causes-and-cures-for-defensiveness-in-relationships/

6 Things That Hide Behind Defensive
Behavior and How to Deal with It

https://www.learning-mind.com/defensive-behavior/

6 Ways To Communicate Without Being Defensive
https://www.bustle.com/articles/144493-6-ways-to-communicate-without-being-defensive

12 Truths About Defensive Behavior
https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-17713/12-truths-about-defensive-behavior.html

15 Common Defense Mechanisms
https://psychcentral.com/lib/15-common-defense-mechanisms/

Are You Being Defensive?
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/making-your-team-work/201403/are-you-being-defensive

Constructive Criticism and Advice
Giving It, Taking It, and Reconsidering It

http://www.healthguidance.org/entry/16145/1/Constructive-Criticism-and-Advice--Giving-It-Taking-It-and-Reconsidering-It.html

Dealing With Defensiveness In High Conflict People
https://www.mediate.com/articles/eddyB6.cfm

Defensive behaviour
https://www.britannica.com/science/defensive-behaviour

Defensive behaviour
https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/neuroscience/defensive-behavior

Defensive Behavior Management
https://www.interventioncentral.org/behavioral-interventions/challenging-students/%E2%80%98defensive-behavior-management%E2%80%99-advance-planning-conne



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How to Be Empathetic
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/what-would-aristotle-do/201505/how-be-empathetic

How to Stop Getting Defensive
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/how-be-yourself/201805/how-stop-getting-defensive

How to Talk to Someone
Who Always Gets Defensive

https://psychcentral.com/lib/how-to-talk-to-someone-who-always-gets-defensive/

Relaxation techniques
www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/basics/relaxation-techniques/hlv-20049495

Self Defense
https://ed.stanford.edu/sites/default/files/self_defense.pdf

Stop Being So Defensive!
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-dance-connection/201311/stop-being-so-defensive

What Is Defensive Behavior
and What Does It Look Like?

https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/behavior/what-is-defensive-behavior-and-what-does-it-look-like/

What Is The True Meaning Of Being Defensive?
https://www.mentalhelp.net/advice/what-is-the-true-meaning-of-being-defensive

Why We Feel Insecure,
and How We Can Stop

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201507/why-we-feel-insecure-and-how-we-can-stop



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International Encyclopedia
of the Social &
Behavioral Sciences

https://www.sciencedirect.com/referencework/9780080430768/international-encyclopedia-of-the-social-and-behavioral-sciences




Help Guide.org
https://www.helpguide.org/




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